What is the point of reincarnation?

It doesn’t make any sense to me. I believe my soul will be in a better place once I die so why would I want to come back here?

New Q & A icon“What is the point of reincarnation? It doesn’t make any sense to me…” A question asked by L. B.

Thank you for your question.

Let me start by saying that I’m wondering if you are coming from an orthodox religious persuasion (one of the Abrahamic religions) in asking this question – or in the way you have phrased it. I’m guessing you might be. [ What is the point of reincarnation ]

The reason I’m considering it this way is because the Abrahamic religions (ostensibly at least) are opposed to reincarnation, or rebirth, and instead believe in our having one life only. Given this position though it would be fair to ask a similar question back: What is the point of having just the one life? [ What is the point of reincarnation ]

Let me explain: We are talking theoretically of a life that may only last a week for one of us, while for another it lasts a hundred years. At the end of life, whatever its length, in this system of belief, we are judged as to whether we are suitable for heaven, hell or possibly purgatory.

But on this basis, as outlined, who has a better chance of getting into heaven. Is it the baby who survived for only a week, or the person who lived for a hundred years and had a better chance of messing things up, or getting things right?

Would you say the baby has the best chance of heaven? If you choose the baby does that not suggest it is better we all live for as short a time as possible, if we want to get into heaven? I think it does.

As I see it, the Abrahamic concept of one life, followed by judgement, is meaningless. It needs revising, updating. For me there are two reasons we come, or return, here to the Earth.

Reason One

The first reason is because we are souls (or “spirits” if you’d prefer). This is our natural form, a part of Love. We are learning to be more loving and less separate from each other. We test ourselves in this treacle of time, this place of resistance. [ What is the point of reincarnation ]

We have, as the Buddhists frequently point out, to let go of our attachment to the world. If we invest in what is transcient, the illusion, it will always fail us. It is, by nature, ever changing and cannot be held onto for long, no matter how hard we grasp onto it.

Everything around us, and what we own, is caught up in change, is in flux. Things are born, or made, and things die or decay. And things are reborn or made again.

In our short physical lives we mostly fail to get this learning, this understanding under our belts. It is not easy to apply even when we grasp the idea. In a given life we may make some, or a lot of progress, or we may even go in the opposite direction – getting more engrossed in the world and its eventual pain and suffering.

Whatever, we are drawn back to repair the damage, to balance the books, to try again, and make the best of opportunity to free ourselves from being ensnared in the world – to become more rounded, awake, and loving beings. I would add that this planet is not the only place we may spend time on, in our learning. [ What is the point of reincarnation ]

Reason Two

The second reason is because I believe we have a remit to help each other and the Earth. It’s not all about the proverbial “meme.” In other words, there is collective work to be done.

Find out more

You can find out a lot more regarding Reason One from my first book; Life and Death: Making Sense of It. For Reason Two, see my Love’s Story of Why We Are Here – which will explain my perspective on this matter.

By the way I hope you will be in a “better place” once you die – and have arrived at a state where you don’t need to return here. [ What is the point of reincarnation ]

Associated links:

Karma and Law of Attraction opposites
What is the Other Side like?
Contact the Other Side
At death do spirits take you away?

Disclaimer: The views expressed in this post are entirely the opinion of the author, Francis O’Neill. No guarantee is given that the information provided is correct, complete, and, or up-to-date.


Category: Karma & reincarnation
Tags: Abrahamic religions, Buddhists, Life and Death Making Sense of It, Love, Reincarnation, Spiritual Q & A
  • H W says:

    How can someone learn lessons from a past life and improve on them in this one if we have no memory of our past experiences? Wouldn’t we be doomed to keep on making the same mistakes? Is it it possible that there is some reasoning behind one life, and that you do gain from living a longer life if you live it well? Perhaps you might be given more responsibility in the afterlife because of the wisdom you have that came from living on the Earth. After being refined by the difficulties of this world you will have great wisdom to pass on to the more innocent souls who died in infancy. Food for thought.

    • Thanks for your comments HW. I agree with a lot of what you say.

      But to give you my thoughts let me just split your comments into parcels.

      “How can someone learn lessons from a past life and improve on them in this one if we have no memory of our past experiences? Wouldn’t we be doomed to keep on making the same mistakes?”

      There is good evidence that some children up to around 7 years old are able to remember their previous life – check out the work of Dr Ian Stevenson and also Carol Bowman for more on this. After our early years we come to identify with the person we are becoming – and then cannot recall our previous existence other than by extra help such as possibly through hypnosis.

      I don’t think we are doomed to keep making the same mistakes. The learning is ongoing – although in our current life we can still repeat mistakes when we are not learning.

      Any how, I happen to believe that outside of this physical existence we can more easily remember our past experiences and more easily be in touch with where our journey is currently taking us – and what we need to do next.

      “Is it possible that there is some reasoning behind one life, and that you do gain from living a longer life if you live it well?”

      For me the idea of one life is a complete fabrication – just as the traffic light system of Abrahamic belief as to where we end up at the end of that one life is also a fabrication. It works well if you want to weave control and fear into people regarding the idea of death being a permanent state. Sure we can make spiritual progress in one life but it is pretty unlikely one’s work will be done in the short time we have here in any given life.

      “Perhaps you might be given more responsibility in the afterlife because of the wisdom you have that came from living on the Earth. After being refined by the difficulties of this world you will have great wisdom to pass on to the more innocent souls who died in infancy. Food for thought.”

      Yes I absolutely agree with you on this. I believe we come into this resistance (as souls) to test ourselves and by this we make progress as awakening loving beings. It is one thing to say we can do or be something, and another to actually do it, to test it out.

      I know from the life I’m having I’ll be back – much to do. :0)

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    1. How can someone learn lessons from a past life and improve on them in this one if we have no memory of our past experiences? Wouldn’t we be doomed to keep on making the same mistakes? Is it it possible that there is some reasoning behind one life, and that you do gain from living a longer life if you live it well? Perhaps you might be given more responsibility in the afterlife because of the wisdom you have that came from living on the Earth. After being refined by the difficulties of this world you will have great wisdom to pass on to the more innocent souls who died in infancy. Food for thought.

      1. Thanks for your comments HW. I agree with a lot of what you say.

        But to give you my thoughts let me just split your comments into parcels.

        “How can someone learn lessons from a past life and improve on them in this one if we have no memory of our past experiences? Wouldn’t we be doomed to keep on making the same mistakes?”

        There is good evidence that some children up to around 7 years old are able to remember their previous life – check out the work of Dr Ian Stevenson and also Carol Bowman for more on this. After our early years we come to identify with the person we are becoming – and then cannot recall our previous existence other than by extra help such as possibly through hypnosis.

        I don’t think we are doomed to keep making the same mistakes. The learning is ongoing – although in our current life we can still repeat mistakes when we are not learning.

        Any how, I happen to believe that outside of this physical existence we can more easily remember our past experiences and more easily be in touch with where our journey is currently taking us – and what we need to do next.

        “Is it possible that there is some reasoning behind one life, and that you do gain from living a longer life if you live it well?”

        For me the idea of one life is a complete fabrication – just as the traffic light system of Abrahamic belief as to where we end up at the end of that one life is also a fabrication. It works well if you want to weave control and fear into people regarding the idea of death being a permanent state. Sure we can make spiritual progress in one life but it is pretty unlikely one’s work will be done in the short time we have here in any given life.

        “Perhaps you might be given more responsibility in the afterlife because of the wisdom you have that came from living on the Earth. After being refined by the difficulties of this world you will have great wisdom to pass on to the more innocent souls who died in infancy. Food for thought.”

        Yes I absolutely agree with you on this. I believe we come into this resistance (as souls) to test ourselves and by this we make progress as awakening loving beings. It is one thing to say we can do or be something, and another to actually do it, to test it out.

        I know from the life I’m having I’ll be back – much to do. :0)

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